I am a Christian, not a Roman Catholic. Roman Catholicism has its own traditions and belief system that incorporates some of what is found in the Bible. It rejects the elements of the Bible that do not concur with its pagan beliefs. This is why the second commandment of the Decalogue is omitted in its teachings and also the following:
- Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by giving heed to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons, through the pretensions of liars whose consciences are seared, who forbid marriage and enjoin abstinence from foods which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth. (1 Timothy 4:1–3)
From what you have written, the impression that I get is that you are expressing frustration in all of this.
The best advice I can give you is the most important thing for everyone, which is to first establish where we stand in relation to our Creator in the event that were to die before our time. You may think that this is bull, but according to the world clock there are 153,424.70 deaths each day. How many of these people do you think were expecting to die today?
Once you have sorted out your eternal destiny, then the issue of marriage and the significance of your relationship with your boyfriend will be easier to work out. For if you are both still in agreement about living in accord to the ways of righteousness, which means loving each other within the favor of the Living God, then happiness should be yours. First things first.
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